I became interested in reading this biography after reading Jay Parini's novel The Last Station (which, in turn, I read because I'd like to watch the movie starring Christopher Plummer and Helen Mirren, both nominated for Oscars for their roles). The Parini novel is a fictionalized account of the last year of Tolstoy's life. To say it's complicated is a huge understatement, but I'll try to paraphrase: after becoming a widely revered novelist, Tolstoy renounced his fiction and became extremely religious, and felt that the life of luxury and property was wrong. He felt there was no greater life than to toil, and he wanted nothing to do with money nor belongings.
Yet somehow he was happy to have others do a great deal of work around him, and he signed over his estate (the beautiful Yasnaya Polyana) to other family members so he could, technically, not be a landowner--even though he continued living there until just a few weeks before his death.
His desire to glorify the peasant life did not sit well with his long-time wife Sophia, who wanted to preserve their home--and his literary heritage--to take care of his family. For that, Tolstoy's ardent followers villainized Sophia and, after Tolstoy's death, suppressed her writings in order to preserve Tolstoy's saintly image.
However, in the last 15 years, some of Sophia's papers, diaries, and parts of a memoir she wrote have been slowly been released to the public. Biographer Popoff uses that new source material to create a shockingly different portrayal of the woman at Tolstoy's side. Rather than the greedy, grasping shrew who thwarted his heart's desire, she was the helpmate who worked with him continuously on his writing, copying and recopying his works after days spent in the hard labor of a woman's work on a large estate. No languishing aristocrat was she--her days were full of household work, plus raising children since--ahem--Mr. Tolstoy had a strong sex drive and an even stronger aversion to contraception, meaning poor Sophia became pregnant 16 times during their marriage, even when she tried to reason with him and get him to understand the physical toll the household work, literary work, and childraising was having on her.
Tolstoy was utterly clueless about a woman's work and life, and often spoke condescendingly of women in general. His doctrine of giving up all material comforts and not becoming attached to family often had devastating results; one young follower left his pregnant wife and child without any means to live while he chased after Tolstoy. Sophia in turn brought the abandoned wife under her wing and provided her with midwife training, so she would have a way to support herself.
To be fair, Tolstoy wasn't a complete douchebag. During a national famine, he organized massive relief efforts, and he was on the front lines, making sure the food and supplies got into the hands of those most needing it. But Sophia was a major contributor too--she organized donation campaigns and oversaw the receipt of tens of thousands of rubles in contribution, which she not only used as intended, but painstakingly documented how and where every penny was spent, so that her husband could not come under criticism in any way. (Wyclef Jean, are you listening?)
Tolstoy even wrote a novella, The Kreutzer Sonata, that had the main character killing his wife because of the "animal excesses" in his life. It could not be interpreted as anything but hostile to Sophia, who in turn wrote her own novella, Who's to Blame, which directly countered the theories in Tolstoy's book.
At the very end of Tolstoy's life, he abruptly left Yasnaya without telling Sophia where he was going, aided by daughter Sasha and the worst of the followers, Vladimir Chertkov (who, after Tolstoy's death, took the leading role in blaming Sophia for everything). Tolstoy had in mind a hut where he could live out his final days, but on the train journey, he fell ill and died at a station. Sophia tracked him down before he died, but was only allowed to see him when he fell unconscious. Chertkov later claimed Sophia drove Tolstoy out of the house; Popoff points to Sophia's own theory that Tolstoy knew death was close and wanted simply to find a small, quiet place to wait for it.
You'd think Sophia would have been somewhat relieved to be rid of him. But no--his death was a stunning blow for her. Married nearly 50 years, she loved him in spite of everything, and fervently believed in his literary legacy which she continued working on until her death, work that involved court battles with Chertkov over the ample archives Tolstoy left behind.
Even when completely at odds with Tolstoy and his sycophantic followers, she stood up for his convictions and fought battles with the government to remove censorship from his nonfiction writings, even when she didn't agree with them. She also zealously oversaw his papers and, later, his property, carefully documenting everything for preservation. She knew his legacy was critical, and she tirelessly worked to take care of it, even selling the estate at a much lower price in order to preserve it as a museum, when she could have earned much more money selling it to private buyers. She insisted that everything in his study be left exactly as he left it, including the book The Brothers Karamazov open on his desk, where he'd been reading it.
Theirs was a tempestuous marriage, full of storms and reconciliations, full of love and despair, full of pain. This isn't a book for the faint of heart, nor, perhaps, is it for a reader who doesn't want their view of Tolstoy as perfect to be disrupted. It's also tangentially about Russian history and politics, all of which reared their often-ugly heads during Tolstoy's time.
But most of all, Popoff paints a striking portrait of two immensely complex people in an incredibly complicated marriage. It could be argued that they were mismatched, but it could also be argued that Sophia was the ideal partner for Tolstoy--possibly the only woman who would have held on through the bad times and kept her devotion to her husband's work intact through it all.
Still--glad I'm not her.